Good sex is
meant for men and good men enjoy good sex and in many years to come,
sexual intercourse is going to be great thing to the average man. And it
remains great until something goes wrong. Out of ignorance most men blame i ton
what is happening in their marriages or places of work, but in actual sense the
body could be telling us something that we need to know or it could be an indication
that we need to attend to urgently.
Yes, there is
an increasing awareness that poor attitude to sex is not just about the quality
of life. It could be a sign of an underlying mild or serious medical condition.
For instance, if a couple notices certain changes in their sex lives, it is
necessary to tell a doctor or sex therapist. It is not proper to just wave it
off. Under normal circumstances, men are more aggressive sexually tan women. But
when a husband’s slogan is “I am just not interested in sex anymore”, it might
be due to many underlying health issues.
It is true
that a lot of things can cause a man’s
sex drive to become low; work stress, falling out of love, lack of sleep, poor
monetary state and so on. But if those things do not apply to your man and he
would rather do every other thing tan make love or if the sights and touches
that once turned him on do not appeal to him any longer, such a spouse is
probably having his hormone out of place or extremely overweight leading to
shrinking of the penis, or increased risk of osteoporosis, type 2 diabetes,
coronary artery disease, metabolic syndrome and so on.
At times, you
or your wife could notice an unusual growth near your testis, which was not
there few years back. Do not take it for granted. It could be testicular cancer
and the problems with testicular cancer most times is that it may not be
accompanied with pain. I know one of the basic challenges that most husbands go
through is premature ejaculation which can also be an indication of hyperthyroidism.
Premature ejaculation coming before intercourse or son after it begins is common
to newly married men or newly married men who have been very active sexually
prior to marriage but engage in heavy masturbation, liquor and cigarette
smoking. Besides, premature ejaculation could strike at any age.
Though
premature ejaculation was initially attributed to psychological issues, medical
research has been able to identify physical causes like the malfunctioning of
thyroid (the gland responsible for making and storing key regulatory hormones).
It has been discovered that masturbation, especially in the early stage of
life, could trigger off this case. Teenagers, Young adults and unmarried single
men are advised to steer clear of any indecent practices that can affect their
health in future.
Another case
that should be critically looked into is painful ejaculation. Some mencomplain of pains whenever they ejaculate. It could be as a result of
muscle spasm disorder or prostration. In women, there is a condition known as
vylvodynia. It is the chronic pain of the vulva (around the vaginal opening)
caused by nerve disorder. This could be as a result of infection, trauma or any
other reason. Physical problems can turn into psychological ones. When a wife
is not interested in sex, at times, it could have something to do with her upbringing or past experiences. But there could also be medical explanations.
For instance, some newly wedded want to know why it hurts when they have
intercourse. Painful intercourse can cause psychological problems, ranging from
bacterial infection to anxiety. It can also be as a result of hormonal changes,
when a woman attain menopause.
Some wives
said they have been treated repeatedly for the same vaginal infection but sex
still hurts. Could there be another reason for the pain? If sex hurts, try to
note the time the pain began and where you feel it (at the opening of your
vagina or deep inside); the nature of the pain (whether it is Sharp or dull),
does the pain start and stop with penetration, observe any unusual vaginal
discharge and so on. This will help you a lot.
Some women
complain that they feel a deep pain in their abdomen when they engage in
penetrative sex. According to medical science, a wide range of health
conditions can cause deep abdominal painduring sex. It could be a urinary tract infection or other causes which can
destroy fertility if they go unchecked. These include Chlamydia gonorrhoea,
pelvic inflammatory disease and endometriosis. Some birth control pills could be
another factor that affects women’s sex life. it can reduce a lady’s capacity
for lubrication and cause vaginal weakness – thinning of the vaginal walls –
that can make sex painful. The culprit are usually the newer formulations of
oral contraceptives that contain low doses of oestrogen and
testosterone-reducing progestin, which can also decrease lady’s libido. Be
observant during sex and give prompt attention to any irregularities noticed.
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